Monday, February 11, 2008

Success

Mum is giving a talk on success to the year 11s and 12s at Grace tomorrow.
Success- it’s been a topic of conversation in our house for the last few weeks.
What is it? How do we measure it?

Webster’s Dictionary’s definition of success is: the accomplishment of what is desired or aimed at; achievement; attainment of wealth, fame, prosperity, etc.

So, technically, if I aim to dig a hole in the backyard, and I do it, then I’ve succeeded- I’ve achieved my aim, met my target. I’ve successfully dug a hole- but does that make me successful?

There is an unstated estimation of worthiness needed to claim general success. So you’re a successful digger of holes. It’s not special. It’s not worthy enough for a grave digger to claim success when he accomplishes his goals.

So the question becomes: What is a worthy aim?

The world has plenty of answers to that question.

Money is worthy. Having lots of it. Good looks are worthy. And glamour. Popularity is worthy. Fame is worthy. Being the best at something is worthy- think sport. Being professional is worthy. Making it to the top of one’s chosen ladder is worthy.

There are a lot of things that could instantly shatter one’s worldy success. A disfiguring car accident. A stock market crash. A slip of the tongue. Tonsillitis, for singers.
We don’t have control over these factors.

God does.

What does God consider to be a worthy aim?
What does God say success is?
Without reaching for the one-line, “correct” answers, first consider three real-life people who are mentioned in the Bible.

John the Baptist.

He was the cousin of Jesus. John was nearly 30 when he moved to the desert. He made his own clothes from camel hair, and ate locusts and honey.
Not rich, not fashionable.
His job was to preach repentance, and to baptise people.

John knew his purpose in life: to prepare the people for Jesus. He worked towards this goal with everything that was in him.

Later, when Jesus was attracting the crowds that had already forgotten about John, he was thrown into prison. Shortly after, John was beheaded.

A short summary of John’s life makes pretty bleak reading. He doesn’t have any of the signs of success about him. Except – it could be said that he achieved his goals. He completed his mission. Was he successful?

Daniel.

Here’s a man we can all respect.

The Bible says that Daniel was a healthy and handsome young man- intelligent, well-educated, a born leader- and he was of noble blood, if not a member of the royal family itself!

Daniel rose quickly through the ranks of the Babylonian administration, which earned him some enemies. But apart from a few pitfalls, he soared upwards until he became Prime Minister- the second most important man in all of Babylon.

Daniel is a significant contestant for the position of most successful man in the Bible.
The world would approve.

Did God approve?

Inspite of his situation as a captive in Babylon in his early years, Daniel adhered to strict Jewish laws regarding eating. Risking offending the king (ie death), Daniel refused to eat anything but plain vegies and water.

Daniel’s rebel friends refused to bow down to the king’s golden statue of himself.
Daniel refused to stop praying to God, knowing full well that the punishment was death.

In the face of serious consequences, Daniel showed God that he was faithful, or obedient, in the little things.

So God let Daniel in on some huge secrets.

Prophecies, visions of the end of time, events that are still in our future!
Daniel saw it all, about 2 600 years ago. He faithfully recorded what God allowed him to, and today we have Daniel to thank for a powerful collection of prophecies that teach us about God’s plans for us, and for the earth.

Daniel may not have understood his life’s purpose as clearly as John the Baptist.
Daniel certainly had opportunity to relax and enjoy his position.
But he was obedient to God- and God used him in even greater ways.

Naomi.

Naomi and her husband had left Israel during a drought, and moved to Moab. Her two sons grew up there, and married Moabite women.
Now, I don’t understand Jewish law very well. But I have a feeling that Naomi’s and her family’s decisions weren’t the best.

Things were going well for the family, however, until Naomi’s husband died. Then her sons- both of them.
She was left alone in a foreign country, and everyone in her family was dead!

She decided to pack up and go home to Judah.

Naomi’s daughter-in-law Ruth was devoted to Naomi and refused to leave her. Her famous commitment to the older woman-

“Wherever you go, I’ll go. Your people will be my people; your God will be my God.”

From the Bible’s records we know that Ruth went back to Judah with Naomi, got married, and had a son. Through her son was born King David- and Jesus, the Christ.
What a legacy we have through Ruth…

All thanks to Naomi’s love for Ruth, and her kindness to her. Thanks to the way that Naomi accepted Ruth into her family, and taught her the Jewish ways. Thanks to the way that Naomi taught Ruth about God- and taught her to love him.

Neither Naomi nor Ruth could have imagined the significant role they played in history. Looking at her life and the despair she experienced, I doubt Naomi felt at all successful.

But Naomi loved God, and she loved others. She taught others to love God and to obey him. Sure, Naomi made some bad decisions in her life. But God used her family to bear the royal line of Israel- and the royal line of heaven. God chose to accomplish his plan of salvation through her.

The truth is- we often don’t understand the significance of our lives as we are living them. It’s not until later- even generations later! that we can see the purpose God used us for.
God still IS, and his plan of salvation is still being worked out. He still needs faithful people to preach his word, to administer nations, to have children, to obey him in whatever part of life he puts us in.

It might not be obvious to you.
But is it a worthy goal?

Will you be faithful?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey Felicity! I just read your post 'Success', and well, I'm not exactly sure what YOU set out to achieve, but I thought it was a success :) - although I still believe there is room for improvement.

It reads smooth and well for the most part, with friendly punctuation and easy-to-consume, bite-size chunks of information.

From the start, just as I was reading the first few paragraphs, I was wondering where it was all heading, and SOOOO hoping it wasn't going to just FLOP like a lead balloon with a contemporary 'cereal packet/consumerism Christian' conclusion.

To my pleasant surprise the post's direction took aim at the more meaningful acquisition(s) in life.

Notwithstanding, and I realise word-count may be an issue, I found the coherence of the main logical themes/thought processes/arguments to be weakly stuck together. It was a bit like being whisked away suddenly from one scene of a movie - say, just before a critical climax - and then being placed somewhere near the end, where we find out that the Beast has disappeared, Belle has just married a handsome prince, and the Servants and Maid-servants sound incredibly like the cutlery!

The most notable example of this incoherence was (have a guess!) between the statement 'God does' and the question 'What does God consider to be a worthy aim?' Its not like the joint was totally dislocated, but it would have been nice to travel this journey with you pain-free. At this point, the focus seems to shift sharply from the world to God.

Maybe its because I read the post without an initial mindset of 'the world' vs 'God' (or something like that), but after reading the conclusion I had a [previously unpresent] sense of discrimination, as if the post was for a select audience only - namely, bible believing Christians.

Moreover, as the reader I wanted to KNOW why God's opinion was so important in this discourse - which had me so easily slipping into like a well-used pair of slippers.

(Nearly finished...)

I thought the conclusion of the biblical examples was very appropriate and used to great effect - a very smooth transition :) Although the significance of 'the plan and purpose of God' was a question still lingering in the background. **By the way, GREAT commentary of the biblical examples. Very suitably rendered.**

Ironically, I think you summed up my thoughts well at the end with: 'It might not be obvious to you' - due to a slight haze of incoherence distorting its clarity.

Having said all that, I secretly wish that I (myself) could have written that very discourse with the same succinctness as you did. (I'm envious... :)

Nathan

Anonymous said...

PS. I found the post very encouraging. Thankyou for writing it Felicity.

Nathan

Felicity said...

Wow Nathan, you're quite critic (and that's a good thing)when it comes to writing... thanks for your comments.

I tend to give in to laziness and don't edit my peices a second time- perhaps that would be a good place to start! LoL

thanks again

Anonymous said...

For some, approval from others is enough to feel successful - be it from peers or God. For others, a sense of personal achievement constitutes success. And sometimes both can be one and the same thing.

Today I was fortunate to hear two men share of their current success, and how they got there. One was the managing director of Digipix, the other an IT guy at Bunnings. Both had different hurdles to overcome in order to get to where they are today, and both have some very different philosophies on how to achieve success. One man flunked school and studies, the other gained his success through his studies; and one was a courageous entrepreneur, the other was a diligent worker. However, they both said that personal integrity was one of the most important things.